|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 12:52:51 GMT -5
Post by Sheryl Yoast on Feb 9, 2009 12:52:51 GMT -5
Me my two buddies and my gay roommate all live in my apartment. I can't sleep at night due to his constant yapping on the phone at 4 A.M. I have developed a sense of homophobia 3 million times stronger then I have ever been where whenever I hear him I legitimately get scared and my hearts start to race. It has gotten so bad that now I can only get two hours a sleep a night. The result is awful panic attacks in the morning and sometimes when I hear or see him. Every night I freak out and have to lock my door. I had one today and I felt like I couldn't breathe. The worst part of this is I have to leave my two friends and the school can't remove him from the room. I have already missed a good amount of class for each of my classes due to the fact that I am so sleep deprived. The worst part is I have no adderol which allows me to get through the day so if I pull an all nighter I can take a nap when I am done with classes. Is their anyway the school can get rid of him? What should I do. And talking to him is out of the question because I would probably end up killing him.
Background on this guy
Extremley gay think the gayest voice you know. Also I think he is retarted as well.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 12:55:50 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 12:55:50 GMT -5
realize that just because he's gay, doesn't mean he's going to fuck you in the ass while your sleeping at night.
I don't socialize with gay people, but then again, I don't freak out when there's gay people around either.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:00:10 GMT -5
Post by Sheryl Yoast on Feb 9, 2009 13:00:10 GMT -5
realize that just because he's gay, doesn't mean he's going to fuck you in the ass while your sleeping at night. I don't socialize with gay people, but then again, I don't freak out when there's gay people around either. That's not the reason. It's the way he walks and talks. I just find it so repulsive and it's snowballed on me. I wish it wasn't the way I felt and I could be open to it. It's also probably because Canisius is probably the gayest college on the East Coast and I have legitimatley been hit on by more men then women.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:17:47 GMT -5
Post by Spencer on Feb 9, 2009 13:17:47 GMT -5
Maybe see a counselor? I mean i seems right now Pig youre going through a tough time and most of it would be better if you could internalize it better. Seems like youre letting your mind get the better of you in different situations. Im not saying its easy, but it seems like its more how youre dealing with situations, and how you portray them to be worse then they are.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:21:34 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 13:21:34 GMT -5
Yeah, the kid isn't the problem, it's you. You need to go get help like Spencer siad.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:23:45 GMT -5
Post by Johnny "B. Good" Stamos on Feb 9, 2009 13:23:45 GMT -5
Move out
|
|
Pacman
All-Star
Boston Celtics
2023 & 2031 BBS CHAMPIONS
Posts: 7,370
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:26:46 GMT -5
Post by Pacman on Feb 9, 2009 13:26:46 GMT -5
Just try to cope with him
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:33:36 GMT -5
Post by DB on Feb 9, 2009 13:33:36 GMT -5
Either move out or deal with the situation. Talk with the kid and tell him to go somewhere to talk on the phone or tell him to keep it down. That really sucks though, I would try to see someone to help you deal with this pig.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:36:48 GMT -5
Post by Funky George! on Feb 9, 2009 13:36:48 GMT -5
Move out, and go talk to someone! Stop letting things snowball, Pig!!
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 13:49:13 GMT -5
Post by Sheryl Yoast on Feb 9, 2009 13:49:13 GMT -5
I know where the problems stems from.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 14:18:43 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 14:18:43 GMT -5
I'll go with the much simpler route and say smother him with a pillow while he's sleeping.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:15:23 GMT -5
Post by Spencer on Feb 9, 2009 15:15:23 GMT -5
I mean him being an annoying roommate can be addressed. Tell him, hey, its 4 am, STFU. Be direct.Your fears over him being gay need to be dealt with by you though. I mean life is perception. If you perceive that things are ok, they are. If you perceive they suck, they do.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:26:05 GMT -5
Post by Ebener 12 on Feb 9, 2009 15:26:05 GMT -5
I mean him being an annoying roommate can be addressed. Tell him, hey, its 4 am, STFU. Be direct.Your fears over him being gay need to be dealt with by you though. I mean life is perception. If you perceive that things are ok, they are. If you perceive they suck, they do.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:29:08 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 15:29:08 GMT -5
I mean him being an annoying roommate can be addressed. Tell him, hey, its 4 am, STFU. Be direct.Your fears over him being gay need to be dealt with by you though. I mean life is perception. If you perceive that things are ok, they are. If you perceive they suck, they do. being someone who's been in many ways where Pig's at, it's alot more 'complicated' then that. Though you do make good points, he needs to tackle the situation and just confront it. In many ways Pig seems like he's avoiding it and it just keeps amounting more and more. Pig you need to just talk to the kid and let him know that it bothers you that he talks so late. You're posting on BBS because you need to let things out but BBS is not the place. Don't be afraid to talk to a counselor at the school or something about the situation, but you coming to the BBS forums for help is a sign you need to talk to someone, seriously.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:34:34 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 15:34:34 GMT -5
and don't think you're a little bitch or some crazy fuck because you need to go see a psychologist or some shit.. I always thought that and I literally almost fucked my life up until I finally got some help and I think I'm 100 and 20% then where I was maybe 1-2 years ago and I've never been on any medication in my life. Sometimes talking about your problems is the best drug. You'd be surprised to know some of the people who go see psychologist and shit... I need to see a psychologist after trying to read that.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:35:22 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 15:35:22 GMT -5
and don't think you're a little bitch or some crazy fuck because you need to go see a psychologist or some shit.. I always thought that and I literally almost fucked my life up until I finally got some help and I think I'm 100 and 20% then where I was maybe 1-2 years ago and I've never been on any medication in my life. Sometimes talking about your problems is the best drug. You'd be surprised to know some of the people who go see psychologist and shit... I need to see a psychologist after trying to read that. you live in Pittsburgh, you have no future.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:36:18 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 15:36:18 GMT -5
"Hey look at me, I'm big bad Maniac, I used to be an obese OL for a shitty ass team and I smother people in their sleep with a pillow!"
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:43:39 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 15:43:39 GMT -5
"Hey look at me, I'm big bad Maniac, I used to be an obese OL for a shitty ass team and I smother people in their sleep with a pillow!" Yeah, but I always give it 100 and 20%.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:44:52 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 15:44:52 GMT -5
Haha, you even deleted the post because it made no sense.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:49:37 GMT -5
Post by Sheryl Yoast on Feb 9, 2009 15:49:37 GMT -5
I talked to my mom, she said I had Post Tramatic stress syndrome or some bullshit and that everyone else in my family has it as well
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 15:59:25 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 15:59:25 GMT -5
Get some help. That's what Marty was trying to say in retard but he's actually right. No shame in getting help. Hell, Tony Soprano saw a psychiatrist.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 16:00:23 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 16:00:23 GMT -5
I talked to my mom, she said I had Post Tramatic stress syndrome or some bullshit and that everyone else in my family has it as well post traumatic stress isn't hereditary... and post traumatic stress is only caused after a devastating or stressful even so I really doubt that's the case unless something terrible in your life happened recently.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 16:00:57 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 16:00:57 GMT -5
Get some help. That's what Marty was trying to say in retard but he's actually right. No shame in getting help. Hell, Tony Soprano saw a psychiatrist. How was what I said "retarded" it made complete sense.
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 16:01:56 GMT -5
Post by easy on Feb 9, 2009 16:01:56 GMT -5
oh, I see I forgot to put better after 100 and 20% gee I am retarded!
|
|
|
Problem
Feb 9, 2009 16:03:53 GMT -5
Post by Speed Racer on Feb 9, 2009 16:03:53 GMT -5
Get some help. That's what Marty was trying to say in retard but he's actually right. No shame in getting help. Hell, Tony Soprano saw a psychiatrist. How was what I said "retarded" it made complete sense. The concept made sense. The way you said it did not.
|
|